Let’s all admit the truth that we all need help! Dovid Hamelech /the King of Israel and sweet singer divinely inspired sang/ wrote himself that “we all need help”. “And from where will my help (mate) come from”! Wifey herself is called an Aizer / helpmate (In the story of Creation at the beginning of the Torah).
Everyone finds the mate part easy, but to help someone else this is a real challenge. So now we can understand the words from our sweet singer (listen to Yosef Karduner sing psalm 121 and be moved by the feeling behind these special words). This brings our Husband to recall, somewhere inside our Husband memories, deep in his mind and heart a time with Wifey before being called Wifey where the emotions were alive with warmth and excitement of potential unity. This was years ago on their 1st date when our Husband sang and covered this song of psalm 121 in a public setting back then. Our Wifey’s heart opened up to these words and potential soul mate, in divinely inspired timing and song “mayin yavor ‘Ezri” (i.e. translated from Hebrew deeply to mean, “where is my helpmate,”) and these choice timed words our yet to be Husband sang knowing that his 1st date ever was fortunately with his soul mate forever! These words explained above are from psalm 121, titled “Shir lemalot” appropriately, meaning songs that bring us upward!
Wifey is described in the story of Creation as an Eizer Knegdo/ a help mate. Some define this description as a help mate either by Wifey really helping and aiding our Husband do his role, or by Wifey going against our Husband if he misbehaves and thereby coercing him to do His role. Either way, we say that we all need help and the more focus our Husband is on the help (mate), the better. Obviously we know the best help we can find will be from the One who knows our needs the most and can provide them too and who is that you may ask? That is for-sure the Ultimate Guide the Creator of us all. The Ultimate Guide provided us with generations of Guides like His most loyal servant, King David the sweet singer and dedicated one to Israel. This is all amazingly within one line explained already all hinted to in the same deep line mentioned above while summarizing these concepts again for the sake of memory and clarity; 1. Help from beyond yourself with application,2. The helpmate reality and constantly finding and supporting your helpmate with actual kindness and help!And lastly but most importantly 3. One’s self-help. This should be noted by our musical Husband’s friends, as an indication to the best song writer of all time, King David. Not only did he sing and write and guide his people in his time, but left us with a guide book for all time. Musically we can’t imagine how this psalm 121 originally sounded and we all hope and yearn that soon we will hear music again from King David that will put beyond shame the music world today back to silence. Our Husband can see from this 1st line from psalm 121 and the advice we gain mentioned above, how importantly deep the words and the guidance therein. While reminding our Husband this is just one of many such lines in Psalms, and admitting we can’t understand and truly grasp or learn without later generation Guides explaining for us the infamous psalms and its depths! Our Husband’s friend Ari Lesser publically mentioned his whole spiritual awakening came from the power of rapping Psalms. However, to return to our Husband’s point and as pointed out before, there are the guides below too. The more skilled these guides are in providing help the better. One of the ways guides can help is after much personal experiences and training. We all could use some extra advice or even basic advice especially when it comes to the most important objectives in life like Husband, happy Wifey!
To really know who the right person to guide us is a gift from above and like our Husband was taught earlier in this guide, sincere prayer with inner knowledge is the most powerful tool he has to achieve this and anything important in life. A certain realization that the most important person for our Husband to help first is to help himself, as Hillel said in the ‘Sayings of our Father’s’ “If I am not for myself then who will be for me, and if not now then when?” Our Husband repeats these words again and again like a mantra and dedicates himself to truly come to self-help so he can then give properly to Wifey what she really needs. Wifey is generally someone who is always a successful helpmate, no matter what her situation. Then together our Husband and Wifey can help their children, and then their neighbors, then their city, then the whole world, just as the Sanzer Rov “the Divrei Chaim” once said! (May all these holy souls’ merits and sagely advice help us all)! Our Husband himself realized that the Divrei Chaim was always busy with helping the Divrei Chaim truly as a way to succeed before helping anybody else. As anyone who knows about the Divrei Chaim, knows he did truly help the world beyond words and with no selfish motives. So our Husband is helping himself by reading and living the Guide and seeking out real true good healthy beyond selfish advice to help himself.
And Wifey? Well Wifey always has been a seeker looking for the truth and the help needed. Wifey didn’t need a Guide to wake her up to her healthy help filled mission. Sometimes Wifey went to professionals who when they connected deeply was truly helpful. Wifey used these sessions talking out her pain and growing from the struggles she faced and overcame of growing up in a world of broken hearts and homes. Wifey knew her essence and this kept her striving to face her issues and still function as a Wife and Mother.
It comes down to excepting a huge change of thought and reality as what is the real true success for Wifey and our Husband?The answer is simply an intense struggle itself is the real true success for our Husband and Wifey. The clarity to help ourselves with real true advice to become whole healthy happy people that can truly become One. This slight pain filled struggle is never worth avoiding and in some way will have to be accomplished through our Husbands positive choices and hard self-help or his negative circumstances that force out a desired result albeit in tremendous pain. Our Husband favorite author and scholar, the holy Rav Tzadok Hakohen of Lublin once divinely inspired wrote over 100 years ago in Pri Tzakick / fruit of Righteousness’, “there is the challenge of positive self-help of facing yourself with truth and love, or forced negative self-correction of facing yourself with suffering,” either way we all our destined to return to our true self either with positive help or suffering and pain. Let our Husband choose wisely and Wifey struggle inspired in a way that brings them closer together. Our Husband as depicted in our only in Israel stories, OII has to be Wifey’s receiving support from our Husband. With this approach of healthy helpful soulful self-growth from our Husband and Wifey, and us learning from the Guide practically, G-d will help us all to inspire us all to seek the Ultimate Help and see Unity revealed help in our relationships together! Latest classes just in :D midnightrabbi-dont-givin/midnightrabbi-inspires-with-our-king! and going-spiritual-inspired/filling-in-the-missing-links-1
(Bergen Belsen, 1944, there were no matzot in Bergen Belsen for Passover 1944. It was decided that bread could be eaten preceded by this prayer.)
Our Father in Heaven: You surely know that it is our desire to do your will, and to observe Pesach by eating matza and by observing the prohibition concerning hametz. But to our great distress, our situation prevents us from doing so, and our lives are hanging in the balance. As such, we are hereby prepared and ready to fulfill the mitzvah of “living by Torah, and not dying by it.’ And so our prayer before You is that You allow us to live on, and that You redeem us, so that we can soon fulfill Your laws and serve You with a fuller heart. Amen.
Healthy Ways to Stay Happy
Being healthy and being happy aren’t too far from one another. In fact, they may be best friends. Numerous studies have shown that if you are healthy – eating right, at the right weight, getting exercise – you aren’t just going to live longer, but you are actually going to enjoy living longer. When you are healthy, you are more energetic, you sleep better, and in general, have a more positive outlook on daily life. In other words, healthy equals happy. Here are a few ways you can stay happy and live healthy (see Healthy Living Blogs for more).
Eat well. The type of foods we eat determine our moods because they often release chemicals in our brains. For example, carbohydrates (bread, pasta, cookies) are known to stimulate the release of the brain chemical serotonin. Serotonin regulates appetite, mood, and sleep, which is why people often turn to carbohydrates if they are feeling down. Another favorite is chocolate, which boosts brain chemicals, including phenylethylamine and anandamide, which give us the feeling of being “in love” or satisfied. Additionally, the fats found in most fish change brain chemistry to make us feel happier and smarter while the fats found in meats clog our brain’s blood vessels and therefore confuses our thinking, and our mood.
Another food-related item to be aware of is stress. When you are stressed, your brain releases a chemical called neuropeptide. This same chemical makes us have an appetite for carbohydrates, which causes us to gain weight. When we gain weight, it adds more stress and the cycle is very hard to break. If you know which foods are good for you and which messages they will send to your brain, you can choose wisely and stay happy and healthy. You can learn more about the importance of proper nutrition at the Nutrition Degree Online.
Exercise. It’s a known fact that exercise releases the feel-good chemical in our brains called endorphins. Endorphins are our body’s natural way of telling us it likes what we are doing, and in turn makes us feel happy. Exercise also boosts our immune system, which means we are able to ward of diseases and illnesses more effectively. With consistent exercise, we can make our bodies healthier, stronger, and more resilient – all items that lead to happiness. Additionally, it has been proven that exercise reduces tension so you feel less stressed and more relaxed.
Get outside. Aside from the benefits you’ll get from breathing fresh air and being active, when the sun is shining outdoors, its rays give us vitamin D, which we need to keep strong bones. Getting a moderate amount of sunshine (about 20 minutes per day) will help you stay happy because the sun also gives us endorphins. With these endorphins, we have more energy and feel positive – all from a stroll outdoors.
When Nissan arrives, a spirit of chiddush, newness and novelty, descends. This is seen in nature; the trees bud, the tulips bloom, and with the last vestiges of snow melting, the mood of the population lifts.
Chiddush is a power of Kedusha, holiness. Physically, everything is very much the same. Newness in a material sense is only an external mirage. The goal of the latest invention is the same as the invention of a hundred years ago – to give a person a temporary jolt of pleasure which dissipates quickly. In Kedusha, reality is constantly changing and assuming completely novel dimensions. Although externally it seems as if today’s prayer is a repetition of yesterday’s, it is a completely new reality all together. The words, though technically the same, have a completely different meaning and shine with a new and exciting Ohr, spiritual light. This is true for every single facet of holiness, be it Torah study, mitzvos, or anything related to Kedusha.
Unfortunately, if we do not tap into the wealth of chiddush that emanates in Kedusha and utilize it to serve Hashem with fresh vigor, the waves of novelty do not dissipate. They are captured by the evil forces and used to produce yet another invention which will further its cause. There are tremendous powers of chiddush today which are not being utilized by Jews in their service of Hashem as seen from the many inventions produced daily which serve to spread immorality. Every time a Jew seeks to gain a new dimension in Avodas Hashem by either learning a new idea which will infuse him with eagerness and freshness or by contemplating the meaning and value of every single act of Kedusha, we prevent the evil forces from gaining access to the power of chiddush and utilizing it for destruction.
A word on the strenuous Pesach preparations: The physical toil invested in Pesach is laden with meaning. Sefarim teach that the sweat produced through the Pesach preparations wash away our spiritual flaws, leaving us, too, ‘Pesach cleaned.’
Source: Based on the Shalosh Seudas Torah of Parshas Vayakheil Pekudei 5775 and other sources
Food is a must with relationship building, as whoever heard of a successful business deal without a business lunch first, a Lchaim to seal the deal and an even bigger Lchaim after the money of the deal comes in. We are not talking about before alcohol anonymous type treats, but rather healthy treats that bridge unity that is long lasting healthy satiation with a smile. ->click here for the full story and many more <-:D
And then there’s the Purim Mishloach Manot and life gets really interesting, my advice is find a Wifey that keeps it simple and classy at the same time :D Where we pray an orange and children drink is all your going to get and that what we call simple D:
Amazing memories that have been #inspired and #inspiresmidnightrabbi.com!
Lovely good week, #liveinspired
Here’s good news from the Tolna Rebbe <- click here for more pics and vids! The Tolna Rebbe officially opened his new Shul this Chanukah (<- click here for main blog) which still needs some help with the final payments, email firstname.lastname@example.org if you can help. This is all in the Merit of Dovid of Tolna the original Tolna Rebbe whose Yahrzeit is Netsach Sheb’Netsach, may His merit protect and bless us ! Please give us the merit to complete a Shul that will be a light unto the nations.
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And read with sincerity the words of the Torah portion this week, which is the key to success in making a living and having the right head space in all we do!
PARSHAS HAMON – THE SEGULAH FOR PARNOSAH!!! says in the Yerushalmi: One who recites Parshas Hamon every day is assured that his food will not be lacking. Even more so today!
Reb Menachem Mendel of Rimanov said it is a Segulah for Parnosah to say Parsahas Hamon on Tuesday Parshas Beshalach.
Reb Mendel M’Riminov said that saying Parshas Ha’monn (Shneyim Mikroh V’Echod Targum) on Tuesday Parshas B’Shalach, is the key to make the money you need to live happily. (Tuesday Parshas B’Shalach is this Tuesday – January 27th)
The full text of the prayer is below.
Translation is by Rabbi Menachem Davis of Mesorah Artscroll Interlinear Siddur Publications
– To be chappy aka happy, understand, collaborate and apply the amazing books from Stephen R Covey specifically the “7 habits of highly effective people”.
- To develop a new Torah / Jewish perspective on this much needed guide, through learning together inspirational approaches, forming these approaches, finding their source in Torah sources and bringing this all alive through our own mission statements, notes and eventual book.
– To be proactive in developing our commitment to real goals and organizing our priorities and time management.
– To make the most out of our time and energy to live more successful and focused, happy lives.
– To develop and refine our mission statement together with renewal and dedication!
Midnightrabbi inspired aka Eli Goldsmith, is originally from a well-known family, in the music biz and entertainment industry, from London, has transferred his upbringing and talents to be at the cutting edge of culture and Jewish talent hosting events for many programs.
He studied in England at John Lyons School Harrow, Woodhouse College and Sussex University! Continuing his education in Israel, Talmudic Law and group council at Ohr Somayach, Kollel Aiza Birah and Kollel Boston, in Derech Hamelech and Rabbi in 6 well known programs where was named honorably the Midnightrabbi by the beloved students themselves, He has rounded off his outlook with a large breath of wisdom including the “7 habits” from Stephen Covey to become the “10 habits” practical business successful approach.
Working as a Consultant in the well-known Charity these past 4 years, the Jaffa Institute and sister program the Bet Shemesh Educational Center is where he honed his talents as office management and consultancy and formed his special bond with many special people worldwide.
Recently working as a Consultant and Office manager of UKA United Kashruth Authority with professionalism and Kosher Certification! And as a Counselor at Retorno the LARGEST JEWISH DRUG REHAB center in the world. Eli was excitedly consulting @Grantwatch.com as Customer Service Executive updating their Social media and @Student Services at MJI Institute.
Eli Goldsmith is currently looking for new opportunities to inspire.
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